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BLC301: Diddy Exposed! Why there’s ’No Way Out’ for the Bad Boy turned Monster!

In the first episode of season 3 of @theBLCPod, Nic Nice, SNM Jones, Just J and Mr. Finley delve into the recent controversy surrounding P. Diddy. The episode begins with an analysis of Diddy's public apology video, exploring the hosts' varied reactions to his attempt at addressing the situation. The conversation takes a turn as they focus on the shocking video of Cassie Ventura being beaten in a hotel, reflecting on the impact of such graphic evidence and the shift that occurred amongst Diddy's allies and the public in general. The hosts then transition into a broader discussion on colorism, past rumours associated with Diddy, star power, and briefly touch on the role of religion in providing a sense of absolution for some individuals or being used as a cover to regain public acceptance versus facing consequences. A particularly provocative segment examines the uncomfortable reality of women being complicit in abuse, whether through silence or direct involvement, and what it means for the broader fight against domestic violence. Finally, the hosts speculate on what lies ahead for P. Diddy, considering the potential fallout and long-term repercussions of these events on his career and legacy. Tune in for a different perspective and thought-provoking discussion that doesn't shy away from the tough questions to include the loyalty to celebrities such as R.Kelly, Trump and so much more. Be sure to Like, Subscribe, Follow and Engage!

SN112: Why Effective Communication is NEEDED & How #saidNICEly Came About

On the 12th episode of #saidNICEly, discover the power of effective communication. Nic Nice, aka Big Nic Energy, discusses the origin of #saidNICEly, shares his thoughts on crafting messages that resonate, and reaching people where they are. He also discusses how to engage in productive conversations and avoid misunderstandings, especially in this internet, social media age. Join the conversation and let's communicate respectfully! Don’t forget to like, subscribe, follow, share, and all that good stuff!

SN111 (FULL): The UNBIASED Take on Kendrick/Drake Battle & 6 TAKEAWAYS for the Rest of Us

On this episode of #SaidNICEly, Nic calls the winner of the EPIC Kendrick Lamar vs. Drake rap battle, and the lessons or takeaways that we can glean from how it all played out. He discusses the real reasons behind the hate for Drake, how it came back to hurt him and why we should avoid creating new hater. He also talks about the importance of how the artists (or people) move before a battle or tough times, and the truth about objectivity in the music industry and those engaged in the conversation. For the second half of the conversation, Nic continues the takeaways starting with cautioning people against the Rush to Judgment, followed by how Strategy is King. He also provides a sixth and bonus takeaway, Silence is Golden. While the rap beef was interesting, Nic didn’t want to let this beef go to waste (Pause), without thinking about what we can learn from this experience. Hopefully you enjoy the conversation. Don’t forget to like, subscribe, follow, share & all that good stuff!!!

SN111: An OBJECTIVE Take on K. Dot vs. Drake & TAKEAWAYS for Us (Part 2)

On the 11th episode of #SaidNICEly, and part 2 of the Take on Kendrick & Drake Rap Battle, Nic continues the takeaways starting with cautioning people against the Rush to Judgment, followed by how Strategy is King. He also provides a sixth and bonus takeaway, Silence is Golden. While the rap beef was interesting, Nic didn’t want to let this beef go to waste (Pause), without thinking about what we can learn from this experience. Don’t forget to like, subscribe, follow, share & all that good stuff!!!

SN110: Rare UNBIASED Take on Kendrick vs. Drake & 6 TAKEAWAYS for Us (Part 1)

On the 10th episode of #SaidNICEly, Nic calls the winner of the EPIC Kendrick Lamar vs. Drake rap battle, and the lessons or takeaways that we can glean from how it all played out. He discusses the real reasons behind the hate for Drake, how it came back to hurt him and why we should avoid creating new hater. He also talks about the importance of how the artists (or people) move before a battle or tough times, and the truth about objectivity in the music industry and those engaged in the conversation. Stay tuned for Part 2 and don’t forget to like, subscribe, follow, share & all that good stuff!!!

SN109: Drake vs. Kendrick Lamar Battle Breakdown #saidNICEly

On the ninth episode of #saidNICEly, Nic jumps into the fray with his opinions on the Drake vs Kendrick Lamar beef. He provides a timeline of things escalated between the two MCs after Drake and J. Cole dropped “First Person Shooter” and Kendrick followed up with a scathing rebuke of Drake (& maybe J. Cole caught a stray) on Future & Metro Boomin’s smash single “Like That”. Things quickly escalated from there and Nic gives his thoughts on who’s winning this war of words, if it’s living up to the hype & so much. Tune and tap in. Don’t forget to like, subscribe, follow, share & all that!!!

SN107 (Full): Why Amanda Seales is A Narcissist using Autism to Avoid Accountability

Check out the full 3-part series of #saidNICEly, where Nic Nice discusses Amanda Seales after her Club Shay Shay interview, and why he thinks that she’s taken avoidance of accountability to the next level. In part 1, Nic addresses the response and backlash received after his previous episode on Amanda and from there gets into some of her problematic behavior. In part 2, Nic discusses & her avoidance of accountability as well as recent claims of an autism diagnosis and how he things she using that as an excuse. He also shows how she’s Pulling A Jussie by being “low-key noble” and using autism for sympathy, similar to Jussie Smollett faking a hate crime for sympathy; which is confirmed by her own comments. He discusses the implications of her actions and explores the importance of empathy and real-world consequences. Lastly for part 3, Nic delves into the controversial statements made by Amanda Seales and explore the blurred lines between criticism, empathy, and narcissism, the problems with self-diagnosis and the dangers of falling for exploitation. Tune in and don't forget to like, subscribe, follow, share, etc.

SN108: Pickmes & Why Women Should Cook, Clean, F--k & STFU!

In the 8th episode, Nic explores a thought-provoking new rap song by China Monai that challenges the current music climate with artist like Sexyy Red & Glorilla. Her new single, I Cook, I Clean, upsets societal norms associated with modern women and offers a different perspective on love and submission. Join the discussion about the reactions and implications of this bold message. Tune in and don’t forget to like, subscribe, follow, & share.