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S6: Kendrick's Half Time Show Wad Mid! Let's Be Honest!

The Super Bowl was supposed to be a night of epic performances, but instead, we got Kendrick Lamar delivering one of the most underwhelming halftime shows in recent history. Let’s be real—this wasn’t it.
Leading up to the performance, the hype was through the roof—coming off his beef with Drake, the leaked setlist, and the chance to make a major statement. But when it came time to deliver? The energy was off, the song choices were questionable, and casual fans were left disconnected.
In this episode of Said Nicely, Nic Nice breaks down why Kendrick’s performance didn’t hit, why hip-hop fans refuse to be honest, and how the culture is so desperate to push narratives that we ignore reality. If we’re sidelining Drake, where are the replacement hits? And was Kendrick even the right person for this stage?
Plus, a quick word on the game itself—outside of betting and parlays, was anyone really entertained? Kansas City and Philly put up a battle, but did it live up to the hype? Let’s talk about it.
👉 LIKE, SUBSCRIBE & FOLLOW for more raw takes and unfiltered commentary. Drop your thoughts in the comments—was Kendrick’s performance really fire, or are people just forcing the narrative?

S5: Why Men are Responsible for Women’s Lack of Accountability!!!

For years, men have played a major role in women’s lack of accountability—by lying, sugarcoating, and avoiding the truth. Society coddles women, fathers shelter their daughters, and men refuse to be honest out of fear of backlash. But now? The truth is coming out, and women aren’t used to hearing it. In this episode of #saidNICEly, Nic Nice breaks down why men are responsible for this culture of dishonesty and why men stepping up to hold themselves accountable will naturally shift the way women react to truth. If men start leading with honesty, can women embrace it instead of rejecting it?This conversation is raw, real, and necessary—so whether you agree or disagree, let’s talk about it in the comments!👉 LIKE, SUBSCRIBE & FOLLOW for more bold conversations that challenge the status quo. Let’s keep the discussion going!

BLCOSC07: More Money, More Problems? 🤔 Accountability & Podcast Scandals!

From viral lawsuits to deep conversations on accountability, gender roles, and industry drama, The BLC Pod Off-Season Conversations #7 delivers another round of unfiltered discussions. Dank DeMoss, a rising rapper, claims Lyft denied her a ride due to her weight—sparking a debate on discrimination. Next, we tackle accountability in the Black community—who takes responsibility, and is there a double standard? Then, Sheryl Underwood’s stance on men being the automatic head of household stirs up gender role debates. Finally, we break down the explosive Tonight’s Conversation podcast drama, exposing behind-the-scenes allegations of cheating, missing money, and power plays.

BLCOSC06: Trump’s Inauguration, Celebrity Backlash, & Defining Disrespect

Join The BLC Pod for an unfiltered, thought-provoking conversation in this Off-Season Conversation. We kick things off by diving into Donald Trump’s latest inauguration, his controversial executive orders, and their potential impact on race, class, and society. Next, we tackle the backlash against celebrities like Snoop Dogg and Nelly for participating in Trump-related events and compare it to the criticism faced by Chrisette Michele in 2016. Finally, we unpack the word “disrespect”—what it means, how it’s used, and whether we’ve lost a shared understanding of the term in today’s culture. Don’t miss this engaging and honest discussion that’s sure to spark conversation. Like, subscribe, and join the dialogue in the comments below!

BLCAD410: Doing Too Much: Guy Code, Dry Snitching & TMI

In this season finale of the BLC Pod: After Dark Edition, the crew dives into a whirlwind of topics that will have you thinking, laughing, and side-eyeing. The episode kicks off with a discussion on TikTok’s potential ban, exploring its implications for creators and users—and whether we’re prepared to leverage our audiences elsewhere.
From there, things heat up as the team breaks down the viral frenzy surrounding Aaron Pierce’s dance on the Jennifer Hudson Show and the double standards of sexual harassment when men are the targets. Speaking of drama, Jimmy Butler’s child support battle takes center stage as the team debates whether $10K extra per month is truly justified or just another case of celebrity excess.
The main topics delve deeper into relationships: “Guy Code” gets dissected as the crew asks whether loyalty among men should extend to keeping quiet about infidelity. Then, it’s on to the tricky terrain of dating—what’s appropriate to share early on, and is there such a thing as too much information in relationships?
Join us for this packed episode full of hot takes, laughs, and unfiltered truths. Don’t forget to like, subscribe, follow, and join the conversation—we’ll be back with off-season episodes next week!

BLCAD409: Joy and Pain: Lawsuits, Leg ups, and Love in Modern Dating

In Episode 9 of The BLC Pod: After Dark Edition, the crew dives into a mix of controversy, culture, and raw relationship truths. Kicking off the episode, they address Tyrese’s engagement drama and the public fallout following his messy split from his ex-wife. From there, they delve into stories of Yung Joc filing for divorce after snooping through his wife’s phone, sparking a heated debate about trust, boundaries, and accountability. The conversation takes a deeper turn with the Joy Taylor and Fox Sports lawsuit allegations, exploring power dynamics, workplace culture, and the damaging stereotypes about women “sleeping their way to the top.” Next, the crew takes on the influence of “hoe culture” in modern dating, dissecting the transactional expectations and how they’ve shifted relationship dynamics. Wrapping up the episode, they tackle the tough question of culpability in cheating—does the cheated-on partner share any responsibility, and how does accountability impact reconciliation? Packed with candid insights, thought-provoking discussions, and unfiltered perspectives, this episode is a must-watch for anyone ready to challenge their views on relationships, culture, and accountability. Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and follow for more engaging content, and check out The BLC Store for exclusive merch!

AD408: Prize Picks, Who’s Really the Prize: Hunter, HOV, Ho’s, & Has-beens

On the 8th episode of the BLC Pod: After Dark Edition, the crew—Nic Nice, SNM Jones, Kim Jones, Delilah Belvedere, Just J, and Delvin The Expert—come together for the final episode of 2024, just before the Christmas season. The episode kicks off with lighthearted banter about the perils of aging before diving into a lively debate about Travis Hunter’s relationship. The crew revisits previous predictions, discussing whether young couples deserve grace and how insecurities in relationships can impact personal growth, particularly when the “man is the prize.” Next, 50 Cent’s remarks about Jay-Z and Beyoncé spark a spirited conversation on whether successful partnerships amplify or diminish individual accomplishments, exploring the dynamics of business, marriage, and choosing a partner who elevates you. SNM calls back to Delilah Belvedere’s book, diving into the taboos of female sexuality. The group debates the fine line between sexual liberation and being labeled, exploring the distinctions between sluts, hoes, and freaks.
Finally, the crew reviews Later Daters, a Netflix series about older singles re-entering the dating pool. They unpack the challenges of dating later in life, including evolving expectations, personal growth, and adapting to modern dating norms in a world where chronic singledom is common. Wrapping up the year with holiday vibes and reflections, the crew signs off with a heartfelt thank-you to listeners and a promise to return in January.

BLCAD407: Jay-Z Denies, Remy Ma/Papoose Demise, & Double Standards Arise!

On the seventh episode of The BLC Pod: After Dark Edition, the crew comes together for a no-holds-barred discussion on some of the most provocative topics hitting the headlines. With SNM’s absence, Nic Nice is joined by Just J, Kim Johnson, Delvin the Expert, and new host, Delilah Belvedere, as they tackle messy celebrity dramas, societal double standards, and deeper issues of justice and mental health.
During Quick Takes, the crew dives into the controversial acquittal of Daniel Penny, the man charged in the manslaughter of Jordan Neely, a Black homeless man killed on a New York subway. Was race the only factor in this decision, or did Neely’s mental health and homelessness make society devalue him? Next, they broke down the shocking murder of UnitedHealthcare CEO Brian Thompson. Was this the work of a deranged individual acting alone, or is there something bigger at play? After Just J and Delvin seem to believe the police may have the right man, Nic offers his trademark deep-dive, conspiracy theory on this one. Finally, the crew debates whether a Las Vegas man’s 26-to-65-year sentence for attacking a judge in court was justified, especially given his possible mental health struggles.
From there, the conversation gets into the Main Topics, starting with Jay-Z, who has been dragged into a civil lawsuit refiled by attorney Tony Buzbee. Jay-Z’s fiery response has the crew debating reputation in the age of accusations and whether there’s any merit to the case. Next up is the fallout from the alleged cheating scandals involving Remy Ma and Papoose. Screenshots, rumors, and fiery responses all explode online, leaving the crew discussing the dynamics of infidelity, financial power in relationships, and the emotional reasons people stray. To cap things off, they get into the viral Usher moment where he fed Tiny cherries during a concert. It sparks a lively debate about open relationships and whether double standards in those lifestyles are truly escapable.
It’s messy, it’s real, and it’s the kind of raw conversation you’ve come to expect from us. Tune in for all the drama, the laughs, and the perspectives you didn’t know you needed. And don’t forget to like, share, subscribe, and follow for more unfiltered conversations!