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BLCOSC07: Medium Ugly

In this episode of Off-Season Conversations, we dive into some of the most heated discussions in culture right now. From Trump’s $5M ‘Golden Pass’ for citizenship to Joy Reid’s shocking MSNBC cancellation during Black History Month, we break down the real implications. We also take on the suspicious death of Telvin Osborne, a Black man who openly denigrated Black women but was later found dead in a case that now has his white girlfriend charged. Do people really lack sympathy, or is this an issue of internalized racism?
Then, we get into Neo’s so-called ‘polygamy’ lifestyle and whether his ex is justified in calling him out. And let’s talk Glorilla shooting her shot at Duke Dennis—but calling him medium ugly at the same time. Is this the future of dating? Should men take offense, or does ‘medium ugly’ actually work?
We’re breaking it all down. Drop your thoughts in the comments! Like, subscribe, and grab the merch at www.theblcstore.com

BLCOSC08: Boys Will Be Boys!

In this week’s off-season conversation, the fellas dive into some of the hottest trending topics, sparking debates and calling out the culture’s biggest contradictions. 50 Cent vs. Big Meech—is 50 just petty, or does he have a point? The crew weighs in on whether holding grudges for decades is a sign of power or emotional immaturity. Kofi Siriboe reveals he’s into ethical non-monogamy, and women are suddenly turned off—do ladies really want honesty, or do they just want the fantasy? Meanwhile, Devon Franklin gets engaged after just a year—is that enough time to truly know someone? And finally, Serena Williams sets the internet on fire at the Super Bowl, but was her Crip Walk a message to Drake or a celebration of Black excellence? Her husband, Alexis Ohanian, fires back at the critics!
🔥 Tap in for all this and more, and don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe.

RNUL2: Why Women Struggle with Accountability—A Therapist Explains

In this episode of Ridiculous, we’re bringing back a heated conversation from “#saidNICEly” about accountability—or lack thereof. But this time, we’ve got a licensed therapist breaking down why women struggle to take responsibility, why criticism feels like an attack, and how their egos protect them from self-reflection.
Men—this is a must-watch. If you’ve ever tried to communicate with your woman, only to be met with deflection, excuses, or gaslighting, this episode explains WHY. But it’s not just about women—men have a role in this too. How do we break the cycle? How do we communicate better? And how do we make accountability less of a bad word?
🔥 Let’s talk about it. Drop a comment below—do you think women struggle with accountability? Or are men just bad at delivering criticism? Like, subscribe, and follow for more real talk, no filter.

The Real Problem Ain’t Serena— It’s Y’all

Welcome to POV with SNM, where we cut through the noise and get straight to the real. In this episode, we break down the Serena Williams Super Bowl Crip Walk backlash—was it really about Drake, or is this just another example of society’s obsession with policing Black women’s joy? From cultural norms and gender roles to media narratives and misplaced outrage, we unpack why Serena’s moves always seem to rattle the internet. Plus, what does this say about the way we view Black women who move on, thrive, and refuse to shrink themselves? Tap in.

A Dance, A Diss, and A Lot of Nonsense

Serena Williams did a Crip Walk at the Super Bowl, and suddenly the internet lost its mind—again. In this episode of POV with SNM, we break down the backlash, the double standards, and the media’s obsession with policing Black women’s joy. Why did people assume her dance had anything to do with Drake? Why is a 2012 celebration still sparking debates about "appropriateness"? And most importantly, why does society keep making Black women the punchline? Let’s get into it.

This Ain't About You, Aubrey

In this episode of POV with SNM, bestselling author SNM Jones breaks down the cultural moment of Serena Williams’ Crip Walk at the Super Bowl halftime show. From the backlash in 2012 to its revival in 2024, we explore the deeper layers of the conversation—was this about Drake? Was it really "for the culture"? And why do black women's expressions of joy always spark debates? Tune in as we unpack the intersection of sports, race, gender roles, and internet hypocrisy.

S8: Not Like Us? The REAL Divide in Blackness No One Talks About

In this episode of #saidNICEly, we take a deep dive into Kendrick Lamar’s Not Like Us and the bigger conversation it sparked. Beyond the rap beef, what does “Not Like Us” really mean? Is it about music? The culture? Race? Class? Identity?
Nic Nice explores the layers of black identity, colorism, and cultural division, breaking down how the us vs. them mentality extends beyond rap. Is the real divide between Kendrick and Drake? Or is it among us?
Let’s talk about who really defines “us” and “they” in our culture. Sound off in the comments! Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and follow!

S7: Kendrick’s Halftime Show Was a Commercial—And Y’all Fell for It

Kendrick Lamar’s Super Bowl Halftime Show sparked major debates, but let’s be real—this wasn’t about art, culture, or storytelling. It was about business. Kendrick made a calculated move to push his album and maximize his financial return, and I respect that. But y’all? Y’all act like this was some deep, untouchable masterpiece.
 
Let’s break down why the setlist felt off, how the performance was a commercial disguised as a show, and why some of y’all refuse to call it what it is. Was it strategy? Absolutely. But was it entertaining? Let’s discuss.
 
💬 What did YOU think of Kendrick’s setlist? Let me know in the comments! And don’t forget to like, subscribe, and follow!